Tuesday, February 2, 2016

Calm January

Well it has been so nice to have a calm month. nothing exciting planned and we can just get back to what is normal to us. is that even a thing?

Its starting with the super cold. but surprisingly it hasnt been too bad. we had a couple weeks of negative. but we are mostly in the 20s and 30s not. so heat wave for north dakota! justin has had a busy few weeks at work and its kind of burning him out a bit. he still does what he needs to, but after working more than 50 hrs 1 week and getting his 40 hrs by wed of the next he was ready for some time off. not that he took it, but he did work from home one day just to recooperate.

we have a new walker in the house! not like zombie walking dead walker, but rylie has officially started walking as her primary form of transportation. she has been able to for a while, she just didnt want to. it took maybe 3 days to figure it out. she would dtart walking but as soon as she fell she would crawl the first day. the second day she would walk a little farther but fall and then crawl. then by say 3 she just got up when she fell and kept walking. she loves to run around with ryker. they both run in circles all the time. she is so happy to be able to keep up a little easier. but that also means she gets into a lot of trouble still. she is still quick to climb up the stairs if mom isnt looking or forgets to put the gate up. one day i was making lunch and heard running around upstairs. i look in the living room and ryker is playing by himself. so i look upstairs and rylie is at the top, sees me, giggles and runs away. little stinker. it was super cute. she loves to go into rykers room and play on his bbig boy bed. you get one soon rylie! be my little baby for just a little longer.

ryker is definitely down to 1 nap now. sleeps in the afternoon with rylie and he and i get some alone time when rylie takes her morning nap. he loves to sing songs and play with the busy board. he loves to dance around to anything. tv show, music, movie or even just by himself. i love this little boy. he has been fighting eating dinner with the family. i admit, we often have a movie on in the evenings because the kids get cranky, its been a  long day, and everyone is hungry and so on. but we turn it all off for dinner. this is not new, but he throws a tantrum every night. so he will go and whine on the couch instead of come to the table and eat. at least he is nice enough to be quiet and say amen when we say prayer. so we eat without him till he decides he really is hungry. lately he finally decides to eat once we put rylie to bed and are ready to get him in jammies. maybe he is just stalling. smart kid. anyways, so we were eating and he was playing. he grabbed rylies baby doll and we hear him say "oh you hurt your head! i kiss it better" then gave it a big kiss. brought it over to the landing where he layed it down and gave it another kiss. then picked it up and said "all better!" it was the cutest thing ever!

He is so polite and sweet. of course he can throw a good tantrum and he has an attitude, but he is still my sweet little boy. I read an article the other day about toddlers. it just talked about how the author didnt like to refer to her son as "terrible two" year old. that actually he is just a regular two year old. he is just learning how to test the boundaries on what is okay and what is not. he is seeing how far he can push things and who will break first mom or toddler. i really liked how she phrases things. not that saying your toddler is in his terrible twos is a bad thing, but i like the boundary phrase better. i think it better describes it. and it makes me feel calmer knowing he is not just doing this to push my buttons, he is just testing limits. so thats what we are calling it now. the boundary phase.

me and baby 3 are doing well also. i havent been too sick this time which is awesome. however once i hit 12 weeks i feel like my symptoms got worse. i am getting more headaches, more nauseous in the mornings. i thought things were supposed to lighten up. haha. oh well. it is all still manageable. i have another dr apt on friday. just making sure everything is going good. im still anxious to know the gender, but we still wont know till march ish.

baby 3! wigglin away on the ultrasound. not that i feel it, but its fun to watch

ryker likes ro play horse and carriage with my workout jump rope

ryker "fixing" the stroller. he likes to be under it just like dad. 

rylie sucking on her toes. a new favorite pastime

we made a movie date night. full of a nest of blankets and pillows, popcorn, chocolate covered raisens, cheese balls, and ibc rootbeer

love this girl. she already loves taking selfies. also, another tooth! 9 teeth total

they do play together. not always just pushing each other out of the way, 

ryker with his awesome new motorcycle. is comes with a wrench and screwdriver to help take apart and put back together. its awesome! he carries it around always. 

he put together his own outfit. it includes a hat that is much too small, lightning mcqueen slippers that are too small for rylie even, and his awesome vest. whatever works bud. 

they both love to snuggle with dad. mostly at the same time. but dont touch each other! thats chaos

rylie being so sweet and letting me not be in relief society on sunday. this is a common occurance

ryker wearing his shirt to cover his legs. he didnt want to come over and put his pants on. but its too cold to go pantsless. 

rewind to christmas. this is the progress pics of Alicias joker game we made for her. it turned out so awesome!

took forever to place and space out all the wholes. it took us a good 4-5 months to do this project

getting closer. 

we stained them so its easier to tell the teams apart

this is the carrying case i made for it. i did end up embroidering joker on the bag. but it fits all the pieces, the container of pegs, and all the decks of cards including a extended edition pack with all the specialty cards. it turned out great and we were really proud of it. 


rylie has gotten into sucking her toes. i have no idea why. but its hilarious. 


this is the walker rylie got for christmas. while it did help her learn apparently it also helped ryker with his hops. it makes him happy. so imaginative. 

Tuesday, January 12, 2016

Happy Birthday Rylie!!!

So in the last week of our vacation Rylie celebrated her first birthday! We are so happy that she is in our family and love how much she has grown and become her own unique independent individual. She definitely does her own thing in her own way and its so awesome to get to watch her grow.

She is our big girl, weighing in at 22 lbs 2 oz. the dr says that this is the perfect ideal weight for a 1 year old. yahoo! she is 31 inches tall. i dont know what is average, but apparently that is tall for her age. maybe by and inch or 2. but thats okay. we love our tall girl. i love the cheesy smiles she gives us. she is so wonderful.

anyways, so we spent the day playing with her and helping her feel special. im sure she thought it was just a normal day, but we tried to make it special. we went out to lunch at Red Robin to celebrate. i admit it is more of a celebration for me. i love that place. we were also celebrating carlee graduating from her masters program. yahoo! good work. lots of reasons to party. then we came home and had cupcakes for rylies birthday. then opened presents and rylie went to bed soon after. birthday or not bed time is still the same. sorry girl.

we love our rylie and look forward to many more years and to see how much she will grow this next year. Happy Birthday Rylie Annabelle!

birthday girl with grandma

bahaha love this shot i stole

how can you not love that smile

her cake

ryker sitting like a king at red robin. juice, comfy chair, computer to pretend play with. life doesnt get better!

close to nap time, we were anxious to get her fries to tied her over



happy happy birthday rylie bell



so yummy!



all at once! 




eating cake!


more cake!

Friday, January 8, 2016

Christmas Break

okay, So the rest of our time in Colorado was spent prepping for christmas and doing lots of holiday things. It was so fun to have the kids around for it.

We went to the ward christmas party where the kids met santa. it went well as you will see. Ryker is very strong in his stranger danger and it was past bedtime for rylie. all in all not a good combination. we tried. but we might wait a year or 2 before we meet santa again.

my mom had a nativity event that she was kind of in charge of. it was so wonderful. basically a ton of people from the ward and friends and family and anyone who wanted to brought nativities from different cultures and countries and they were set up to look at. in another room there were ones that were child friendly and little kids could pick up and play with. ryker could care less about the child room. he never wanted to go in or stay there at all. then in the chapel there were a ton of pictures of christ. so many beautiful paintings. some are common pictures, some personal paintings, just a little bit of everything. it was very beautiful. it was actually quite touching that this was rykers favorite room. he was always pulling me back to it and wanted to stay there. warms my heart that he loves christ so much already. there were many people that performed songs as background music. my dad alicia and i sang 2 songs as well. family favorites. we didnt know what to do with ryker and rylie so they came up with us and wiggled all through our songs. but were quiet. rylie was really only happy if we were swinging her around like a bell. so she was the entertainment while we were trying to sing something spiritual haha.

other than that we played a lot with grandad and grandma. the kids finally got over their colds. mostly life was pretty good. i got to catch up with my old friend kate. she is doing good and has a son that is 6 months old ish. he is a cutie. we discussed how much life changes after kids and now its weird and so different to hang out with old friends who dont have kids yet. just a very different lifestyle and very different priorities. its interesting to see and i can attest to that. life is crazy different after a baby. let alone the 2 i have.

which brings me to my next tid bit. we found out around thanksgiving that we are expecting baby number 3! we are super excited and a little nervous to be outnumbered by the kids. but its going to be great. i will keep updating on that as well. only 1 baby in there! but baby is so small now that there is not much to report. baby and mom are happy and healthy! lets see if i can keep up with my healthy eating and exercise. i lost 25 lbs over the summer only to gain it back with baby weight. haha. hopefully it will come off easily if i keep up my good habits. this pregnancy has been the best so far out of all 3. i have not been super sick like i usually was. i am a little nauseous especially in the morning, but other than that i am mostly okay. see lifestyle change for the better is a good thing.

on christmas eve we had alicia and brandon watch the kids as the rest of the family went to an escape room. it was so fun! we were locked in a room and a "psycho killer" was after us. we had an hour to escape. it involved a lot of teamwork and using things in weird ways. bones and chains and locks and safes. mom saved us with her mushroom clue. and we got out with 6 min to spare! we only had to ask for 1 clue, but it was more of a reminder of something we had already found so i dont think it counts. haha.

rylie has taken a couple steps on her own when practicing with grandma grandad and i, but hasnt gotten the courage to do it on her own yet. we did celebrate her first birthday in colorado. that will come in another post.

ryker has come such a long way in his language. he talks in phrases now which is a huge plus for us. only when he is really upset and already crying does he forget to use his words to tell us what is wrong.

justin was here in north dakota working while we were partying in colorado. he got a lot done but definitely missed family. we missed him to. we were so excited to get him back for christmas.

dad and rylie cuddling on the couch. rylie loves to twirl her hair when she is sleepy. so adorable

i think this was a ryker special? he focused in on her and everything

cant get enough daddy cuddles. whenever one is cuddling, the other needs to also. what are we going to do with 3 of these?!?!?!

in progress of the busy board we made ryker and rylie for christmas

ryker and grandad playing together

ryker trying to take a selfie with an old camera phone.


in the morning before grandad went to work they would play a little. this is everyone crawling up the stairs. still a favorite of rylies. she is quick, and she knows when you arnt looking to make a break for the stairs. 

playing the piano with aunt licia

we decorated sugar cookies with my friend kate. we gave rylie one and she promptmly undecorated it by eating just the frosting and getting is all over herself. im not even mad. she is just so cute. 


ryker loved santa

rylie loved him more

this is the happiest faces we ever got from these 2 all night. 

ready for church!


love that smile! she sure loves grandma

he looks like such a big boy! he is a big boy! its crazy how much he has grown. 

an old photo i found of my family all napping together. arnt they cute. 




sometimes eating makes you so sleepy

shockingly my uncle mike didnt make ryker scream and cry. i was stunned. but they seem to be having fun together. 

my mom was having ethan try on some sweaters for christmas but didnt want him to see, so she had him try them on backwards and put the hood on. result was a hilarious conversation and some weird fitting, but in the end they were good choices. 

ethan and fallyn were wrestling on the floor. im so glad that as adults we still play as children. 

so happy dad is back!

our little shepard

christmas eve devo. 

with the whole fam

and the beautiful pianist. 

our family of shepards for the nativity reinactment

joseph with some swag

ryker turned into a holiday christmas angel half way through

always a pretty angel

both angel and christmas cupid delvering the message to merry

our gorgeous inkeeper

great wisemen doing wise things ;)

the best joseph and mary we have ever had. 



trying to fulfill prophecy and be with child


please let us in!!!

the new baby jesus!


alicia and brandon as our wisemen

letting baby jesus drink the mur was maybe not so wise. haha. 


great job team. another succesful year

santa busy board gift and stockings waiting for kids in the morning!

deitrick christmas be ourselves before we woke up all the aunts and uncle. 

great book!


thanks aunt tricia and uncle brandon! they love them!



justin getting all nostalgic over the ornament of the year.  

lining up for christmas morning




we went to a nerf battle. it was an hour of nerf war and it was so fun!


my cousin katelynn got married the week after christmas. so happy for her! they are adorable. 

so precious. i love her and hayden together. 

at the ring ceremony

big boy eating breakfast 

she misses her cousin lottie

our christmas card this year

this was back at halloween, but this is our family with all our costumes on. rylie and i as biker chicks and justin and ryker as lumberjack

family at thanksgiving

this is the photo we gave my parents to announce our pregnancy. it was hilarious. thanks rach for taking the photos while we were in utah. beez and carlee were real mad i lied to them. but i like what rachel said. she mentioned that i am free to announce my pregnancy however i want and its not considered lying. im using that. and that is what helps me sleep at night haha. 






rylie dancing to grandma playing christmas songs


rylie walking on her own! it will come so soon!


singing happy birthday to auntie fae!


for some reason he thought it was the funniest thing to rub noses with grandad. it was hilarious to watch.